Birth of a baby is a big life event. Both mom and baby will experience a period of healing and transition. Preparing for this transition is important so that you have all the information you need to get through your first few months postpartum.
New Mom Essentials
New mothers may experience bleeding and discharge, also known as lochia, after a vaginal or c section. This is normal, and it helps flush out excess blood and tissue from after birth.
It's also important to hydrate and stay well hydrated during this period so you can recover from your delivery in the best way possible. A healthy recovery can be helped by drinking lots of water and eating plenty of fruits and veggies.
Your body has been growing a baby for nine months, so it's important to give it the support it needs during your recovery. This means that you should nourish your body with vitamins, nutrients and supplements to help you heal and get back on track.
Kin's Postpartum Vitamins provide energy replenishment and support during times of adjustment and recovery. They also help to improve your immune function and nutritional needs. These natural, herbal formulas contain plant-based ingredients that can help restore your body's lost nutrients and support your digestive function.
PeriRinse Bottle
Whether you gave birth vaginally or had a c-section, peri-rinsing is an essential postpartum bathroom tool that can make your life a little easier. The small bottle can be used for squirting warm water onto the area to cleanse and soothe it. It's a great way of keeping your vagina clean and reducing the chance of infection.
Softener for Stools
Your doctor or midwife may recommend a stool softener like MiraLAX or Colace during the first week postpartum to prevent constipation and keep your bowel movements regular. This is particularly important if you had a vaginal delivery or an episiotomy (surgical cut to your perineum during labor to prevent tissue rupture)
A Sitz Bath
A sitz-bath is another way to relieve and clean the area around your perineum after a delivery. This will reduce swelling, irritation, and bleeding from things like hemorhoids or open vaginal drops.
To soothe the area and to numb the pain, you can also use a Perineal Spray such as Earth Mama Herbal Perineal Oil Spray or Dermoplast Pain Relieving spray.
Disposable Mesh Underwear
Postpartum recovery is easier with disposable mesh underwear. These washable, super-soft undies are breathable and supportive. They'll protect your belly from post-birth bleeding and allow you to sleep comfortably.
Wipes and Diapers
Depending on how you delivered, it's likely you'll need to change your baby multiple times a day during the first few weeks postpartum. It is important to keep a stash of diapers and wipes in your car as well as at home.
FAQ
What is the most challenging time of your life?
Teenagers are often difficult to manage because they don't always want what you think they should have. They may also rebel against parents authority.
Teenagers require guidance and love just like any other age group. It's important that teenagers learn to take ownership of their decisions.
They need some time for themselves, without supervision, but not too many freedoms. And they need to know when to ask for help.
Teenagers tend to be independent and self-sufficient. However, this does not mean that they do not need your support.
Teens should feel loved. They must see their parents as role models who set good examples for them.
Teens should also be able understand why certain rules apply to them. For example, teens shouldn't smoke and shouldn't drink alcohol.
Children should learn from their parents what is right and wrong. They should also explain the consequences if they break these rules.
Children should see that parents respect their opinions. Respecting their opinions means listening to them.
This means that you must be open to compromise.
Teens can become rebellious and angry sometimes. This is not always a bad thing. In fact, it shows that they're growing up.
Teens who act out are usually trying to express something deep in their hearts.
They may be feeling confused or frustrated. Or, they might struggle to cope with life's changes.
Listen to your teen. Then try to figure out what's causing his or her behavior.
You can solve the problem if you are able to identify it.
What should first time mothers know?
First-time moms need to understand how much they have to learn. They must realize that they do not have to be alone in this journey.
There are many women who have been there before. And they've learned from those experiences.
These women will offer support and encouragement.
They will also feel less isolated as they move into motherhood.
How to best address sibling rivalry
Sibling rivalry should not be avoided by you ignoring your siblings. Instead, you should find ways to make them feel valued and loved. They won't be jealous of one another and it will allow you to have fun together.
Here are some tips:
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You can play games with them. Play hide and seek or tag with them.
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Offer them special treats. You could give them an extra slice of cake, or an ice cream cone.
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Make them laugh. You can tell jokes, sing songs or dance.
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Spend quality times with them. Go on walks together, read books or play board games.
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Talk to them about the things that are most important to them. Ask about their hobbies or favorite activities.
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Be patient. Don't let them get in each others' way. Be calm and cool.
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Praise them when they do something nice for each other. Let them know how much you appreciate them being friends.
What is a healthy lifestyle for a parent?
Healthy lifestyles for parents include eating well-balanced foods, regular exercise, adequate sleep, and spending quality time with loved ones. It also means avoiding drugs and alcohol.
Is gentle parenting good?
It depends what you mean with "good." If you're referring to the treatment of children, then I would answer yes. But if you want to know if it is good for them, I will say no. They need to be disciplined and firm at times. They will never be able learn to behave correctly if they aren't disciplined and firm.
Children need limits and rules. Without these, they will never know what's acceptable behavior and what's not. They will not know how to respect others, and follow their instructions.
I don't know which parenting style is more effective. All three styles work equally well. Finding the right one for you and your family is key.
Statistics
- Most adults will become parents at some point in their lives (i.e., around 89.6% of the adult population worldwide; Ranjan, 2015). (positivepsychology.com)
- Students from authoritative families were likelier to say that their parents–not their peers–would influence their decisions (Bednar and Fisher 2003). (parentingscience.com)
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How To
How can I discipline my children?
There are many ways of disciplining a child but remember that the goal is to get them to understand why they did something wrong so that they don't repeat it.
Here are some tips:
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Explain to your child the reasons you think they did not do right.
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Give them a time limit. Let's say that you have 5 minutes to clean the room. You will be asked to leave school if your room isn't cleaned up by the end of the timer.
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Praise good behavior.
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Be kind to others.
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Make sure your child knows what consequences there will be if they misbehave.
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Reward instead of punishment. Rewards include praise, stickers, toys, etc.
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Your child should be taught the rules of the game.
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Be consistent.
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Avoid yelling or shouting.
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Keep up the good work.
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Talk to your child calmly and firmly.
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Be in control of your emotions
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Avoid shouting or screaming.
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Show love and affection.
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Do not hit your kid.
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Take time to explain yourself.
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Remember, children are only tiny once in their lives.
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Always keep your word.
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Listen to your child.
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Understand that children are not stupid.
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Have patience.
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You shouldn't make your child mad.
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Be calm
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Encourage your child to express his/her feelings.