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Motherly Feelings

By Andrea Ell 27 April, 2023 2 mins read

All women do not have the maternal instinct. Some people have a tendency to prioritize work over all other things, such as caring after a child. This is normal, but it can cause a lack of maternal feelings. The Amygdala is associated with maternal feelings. Aside from the maternal instinct, other hormones may also play a role.

Not all women have a maternal instinct

In many cultures, the term "maternal instinct", which is commonly used in various cultures, is widely accepted as a fundamental characteristic of women. It is a woman's desire for children and the ability to care for them. Science has refuted this idea. It may be true that some women are born with a maternal instinct. However, this is not an automatic response that all women have.

Some women feel less maternal instinct than others, which is fine. These women just need time to find themselves and get to know their bodies and babies. Although not every woman experiences a maternal instinct, those who do are usually very attentive and caring to their child's needs.

Amygdala activity correlates with motherly feelings

Research has shown that maternal feelings in infants, and children, are associated with amygdala activity. To study brain activity in children and their mothers, researchers have used fMRI. They found that viewing a mother's face increases the activity of the left dorsal amygdala.

Memory and emotion are also related to Amygdala activity. However, the emotional content is what determines the correlation. Different types of oscillation are seen in amygdala neurons during emotional arousal. These oscillations may promote synaptic plasticity. This process involves interactions between declarative memories and neocortical memori. Creative mental activity might be related to Amygdala activity.

Predisposition to motherly feelings

Some people have a maternal instinct naturally. This instinct might be hardwired. However, others may develop it through hormonal or biological changes. No matter the cause, reproduction contributes greatly to the extraordinary diversity of life. Theoretically, those genetically predisposed not to have maternal feelings will be selected out from the population because sexual pleasures are a condition for reproduction.

Hormones and motherly feelings

Research suggests that motherly feelings can be triggered by hormonal changes such as the release of prolactin or oxytocin. These hormones have an impact on behavior, perceptions, as well as emotions. Prolactin is a milk production hormone, while oxytocin promotes attachment and childbirth.

Greater amygdala activity was seen in mothers who were more responsive and pro-social with their children. However, new mothers who reported higher levels of anxiety and lower moods had a less pronounced amygdala response. These mothers also had more stressful parenting experiences. The researchers believe that these findings are linked to the hormones flowing into the amygdala.

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FAQ

What is the most challenging time of your life?

Teenagers are difficult to manage, as they often don't want what you think is best for them. Teenagers may rebel against their parents' authority.

Teenagers are just as dependent on guidance and love as any other age. Teenagers need to be taught how to make decisions and to take responsibility.

They need to be able to do their own thing without being supervised, but they don't want too much freedom. They also need to know when they should ask for assistance.

Teenagers are generally independent and self-sufficient by their nature. They still need support.

In fact, teens need to feel loved and cared for. Teens must look up to their parents as role-models and be able to set good examples.

Teens also need to understand why certain rules are necessary. For example, teens shouldn't smoke and shouldn't drink alcohol.

Parents need to teach their children how to tell right from wrong. They should also be clear about what to do if their children break these rules.

Parents should also show their kids that they respect their opinions. This includes listening to what they have to say.

This requires being open to compromise.

Teens can sometimes become angry and rebellious. But it's not always bad. They're actually growing up.

When teens act out, it's usually because they're trying to express something deep inside.

They might feel confused or frustrated. They may also have difficulty coping with life's changes.

It is important to pay attention to your teen. Then, you can try to understand what is causing your teen's behavior.

If you can identify the problem, you'll be able to deal with it more effectively.

How can I tell if my child needs more or less discipline?

Children need different amounts of discipline depending on their stage of development.

Your child may be able to benefit from spanking if he/she is young (under two years).

But if your child has an older age, he/she may require more structure.

Before making any major changes in parenting style, it's important to talk with your doctor about the behavior of your child.

What is positive parenting style?

Positive parenting styles help children become happy and well-adjusted adults. They teach them how to be constructively and positively receptive towards others.

They teach children how they can deal with conflict and stress, how to resolve conflicts peacefully and how to deal with disappointment.

Positive parenting helps children develop self-discipline, responsibility and self-control. It teaches children how to take decisions and solve problems themselves.

They feel encouraged to take risks and explore new possibilities. They learn to work hard and be successful in life.

How can you best address sibling rivalry?

You shouldn't try to avoid sibling rivalry through ignoring them. Instead, make sure to show your siblings that you care and appreciate them. So they don't feel jealous and can have fun having fun together.

Here are some ideas:

You could play hide and seek, tag, or any other game where they can cooperate. Play hide and seek or tag with them.
Special treats are a great way to show your appreciation. Give them extra pieces of cake or ice cream cones.
Make them laugh. Use humor, songs, and dance to make them laugh.
Spend quality time with your children. Go for walks, take a book, or play a board game.
Talk to them and ask about their interests. Ask questions about their favorite hobbies or activities.
Be patient. Do not get discouraged if they have to fight. Be calm and cool.
When they do something for one another, praise them. Let them know how much you appreciate them being friends.

What is a healthy lifestyle for a parent?

Parents need to live a healthy lifestyle. This means eating well-balanced, exercising regularly, getting enough rest, and spending time together with family. This includes avoiding alcohol and drugs.

Statistics

Dr. Phil says, “Children should be able to predict with absolute certainty, what will happen as a result of their behavior, 100% of the time.” (parenting.kars4kids.org)
Most adults will become parents at some point in their lives (i.e., around 89.6% of the adult population worldwide; Ranjan, 2015). (positivepsychology.com)

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How To

How can I discipline my child properly?

There are many ways to discipline children. But remember, the goal is for them to learn why they did something wrong so they don’t repeat it.

Here are some suggestions:

Explain to your child why it is that you think they did something incorrect.
Give them a time limit. You could say, "I'm going give you five minutes to clean your bedroom." If you don't finish by the timer, you'll be required to stay after school.
Praise good behavior.
You shouldn't punish bad behavior.
If your child is not following the rules, make sure they know what the consequences will be.
Use rewards rather than punishment. Rewards include praise, stickers, toys, etc.
Set clear rules for your child.
Be consistent.
Avoid shouting or shouting.
Follow through on punishments.
Talk to your child calmly but firmly.
Control your emotions.
Speak softly and don't shout.
Show love.
Don't hit your child.
It is important to take the time to fully explain your self.
Keep in mind, children are still very young!
Always follow through on promises.
Listen to your child's feelings.
Remember that children don't have stupid minds.
Have patience.
Be kind to your child.
Stay calm.
Encourage your child's expression of feelings.